Conflict of children is always the nightmare
of parents. The following advice will help parents to solve this miserably hard
state to bring the safeness for whole family.
1. Define limit
The first thing that helps conflicts of
children isn’t too serious, parents need to define limit in their children’s
behavior. You should try to make clear for the things that are allowed and
aren’t allowed. Babies need to know that the behaviors such as punching,
pulling hair, cussing or stealing toys are the incorrect things and babies
aren’t allowed to do those things.
Conflict
of children is always the nightmare of parents.
2. Spend time for children
One of the things that lead to conflict of
children is that babies feel that their parents don’t care them much and they
think that their siblings occupy their parents. Therefore, parents need to show
that their care for children is equal.
You
should spend time playing the games that children like without participation of
their siblings.
You should spend time playing the games
that children like without participation of their siblings. This thing will
make children feel that they get enough care from their parents.
3. Praise
Another reason that leads to the conflict
of children is the jealousness. Children will feel angry and upset when their
siblings are praised more. Therefore, you should help babies be proud of
themselves by praising their small successes and you also show to help babies
recognize that how proud you feel about your children.
4. Time of family
Time for the whole family to stay together
is very important and it is the time to bring up the relationship of members.
This thing will help everyone understand more and it is also the time for
children to have more memories together.
Time
for the whole family to stay together is very important and it is the time to
bring up the relationship of members.
Even when it isn’t always happy in this
time, parents must do. Parents’ attempt will make members in family become
close over time.
5. Listen attentively
Your angriness can make babies stop the
conflict, jealousness or argument. You should sit down and listen to babies
attentively. You should create chance to help you and your children talk about
conflicting problem. After that parents and children find way to solve
problems.
You shouldn’t hope that only a talk can
solve baby’s conflict completely. Parents need to be patient to have many
similar talks until babies themselves stop their conflict.
6. Let babies solve by themselves
Sometimes, the most effective solution to
stop conflict is letting babies solve by themselves and naturally, they aren’t
allowed to argue or fight. You should let babies enter into the adults’ world
and babies will study the way to overcome conflict. You can support babies by
suggesting about the solution and let babies deploy by themselves.
7. Let fight end naturally
Every day, when you witness children’s
conflict, you will think that they will never end. However, that fight will
stop when babies move to the new stage. Many siblings hate each other when they
are young; however, they become close when they grow up. Therefore, you should
be patient to wait and time will help conflict end naturally.
