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8 Typical Mistakes In Teaching Children

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Applying punishment to teach children is also an art.

Applying punishment to teach children is also an art. If parents aren’t clever, they can have mistakes, and as a result, it will be counterproductive. For example, in the situation that mothers prepare for children to go to school, mothers say “Take dress and wear, otherwise I will ask you to stay at home”, and babies will choose staying at home immediately and mothers don’t completely want this thing.

Applying punishment to teach children is also an art.

Applying punishment to teach children is also an art.

The following mistakes that parents can easily catch when they give their children the discipline and solutions to solve these things:

1.     Not following children like a shadow

Do mothers know: If parents threaten babies without acting, children will never take their parents’ advice? Once, Mary’s mother took her to go to Daisy’s house. Daisy didn’t agree to let Mary paly with her toys. Her mother said “You should lend Mary bear, if not, I will take the bear”. Of course, when Mary played with another toy, Daisy also continued not letting Mary to play.

Solution

If mothers really want to prevent babies to do something, they should act and shouldn’t have idle talk. The reason is that babies won’t pay attention the things that you say unless you stand up and ask them to stop. First of all, mothers should warn them about result of things that they do. If children continue doing these things, mothers can give babies chance in the second time for reminding. If it isn’t effective in the second time, mothers can apply punishment that they said.

If mothers really want to prevent babies to do something, they should act and shouldn’t have idle talk.

If mothers really want to prevent babies to do something, they should act and shouldn’t have idle talk.

2.     Telling lie to babies

Tom - 2 years old - is determined not to go to school on Monday of every week.  In that morning, his mother took him to go to school, but he was determined not to get off car, he followed his mother and cried. His mother pointed the house whose doors are closed and said “If you don’t go to class, I will take you to that house and keep you in that dark room”. And of course, although Tom was crying, he was obedient to follow his mother to go to his class.

Solution

Telling lie to babies isn’t good and sometimes, it will be counterproductive. Instead of this thing, you should put yourselves in children’s mood because sometimes mothers don’t want to go to work at all. In this case, it’s better to comfort babies.

3.     Parents are too hot-tempered

In a family, father is often hard to repress his emotion and he lacks patience to children. Sometimes, fathers often apply punishments that make babies feel threated, even when babies know about their mistakes.

Solution

In the case that fathers are strict, mothers need to explain to help father understand: that thing won’t help babies’ behavior better and sometimes this thing also makes babies feel that their fathers are unfamiliar and threatened. Being strict with children is a necessary thing; however, you need to be calm and apply the different methods for particular cases.

In the case that fathers are strict, mothers need to explain to help father understand problem.

In the case that fathers are strict, mothers need to explain to help father understand problem.

4.     Seducing to help babies eat with reward

Mother of Kate (2 years old) shared: Her daughter suffers from anorexia. When mother wants her to eat rice, her mother must seduce her by promising to let her eat chocolate or lollipop and after that the baby will continue eating. As a habit, on meals, Kate harasses her mother to give her this thing, that thing according to her hobby. Moreover, Kate likes to eat fried dishes, so this thing makes her mother very worried.

Solution

Mothers shouldn’t create the habit of requiring according to baby’s idea. Therefore, instead of soothing babies “If you eat the whole rice, I will buy toys for you”, you should praise to stimulate babies’ attempt “Kate is very obedient in eating. You are going to become adult. I am very proud of you”. Or mothers can express disappointed attitude when babies don’t follow your advice “I feel very sad about you”, and as a result, children feel understand that they don’t behave well.

Instead of soothing children, mothers should praise to stimulate children’s attempt.

Instead of soothing children, mothers should praise to stimulate children’s attempt.

5.     Parents don’t behave correctly

Teacher is very surprised when Tom - 3 years old  - push his friend’s hands and shout at with bad words because he doesn’t want his friend touch his new pen case. In reality, this mistake isn’t completely caused by Tom. Tom has that behavior because he imitates his parents’ behavior when he tries to get near key or book on bookshelf. Children can lean by imitation quickly and sometimes parents themselves unintentionally teach babies with bad things.

Solution

Parents need to be careful in words as well as behavior, even when babies have mistakes. Parents should be a standard example to help babies follow.

Parents need to be careful in words as well as behavior.

Parents need to be careful in words as well as behavior.

6.     Losing patience to children

Taking care of active babies requires patience. Any patience has its limitation and this thing makes mothers lose self-control. As a result, mothers will scold babies.

Solution

Mothers need to be calm by let children stay and you will move to another room. In the case that has mother and child, mother needs to ensure about safeness for baby. You can ask someone to observe babies. Changing air and having space for taking a rest, you can avoid unfortunate behaviors. Children can make you feel extremely angry; however, it quickly makes you smile again.

7.     Letting babies wait in a long time

Mother of Anna drove and went to the school to pick her up. At that time, there were a lot of vehicles on the roads, so all vehicles must move slowly. While mother was anxious to move on the road and she couldn’t escape form traffic jam, Anna removed seatbelt, was anxious and didn’t sit at one place. Her mother soothed her:” You must tie seatbelt and sit at one place. When we come back home, I will read fairy tale for you to listen before you go to bed”. This is an effective method that mother often applied every evening to remind her child to hide toys, change clothes and go to bed. After that, Anna continued disrupt in car.

Solution

Babies that are 2-4 years old can forget things that they have just made mistakes and are reminded by their mothers after 1 hour. Therefore, mothers need to pay attention and remind babies regularly and you need to let babies recognize result of bad behaviors as soon as babies have just done, you shouldn’t wait until the next day.

Mothers need to pay attention and remind babies regularly.

Mothers need to pay attention and remind babies regularly.

8.    Saying too much to babies

A father likes to talk and explains his daughter with many problems in life. To reminding her to go to bed early, he also says: “You must go to bed early. You exercise all day. Evening is the time when you should take a rest to have strength for tomorrow…”

Solution

Explaining children’s questions is a good thing; however, parents need to pay attention that they shouldn’t say too wordy because children aren’t adults that are reduced. Mothers only need to say: “Children shouldn’t eat candies before eating rice” and you can ignore explanation about sweet foods. This thing can make children not want to eat rice.

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