The first moment when you survey your
children is the emotional souvenir and you will never forget.
When doctor hands babies for mothers,
mothers will feel that they have just completed lofty mission. Mothers feel be
new to the surroundings, strange and interested when they touch their children,
their flesh and blood.
The feeling after giving birth
After babies are born, midwife will cut
navel cord and bandage it carefully. After that they will clean mucus in nose,
mouth and eyes of babies. Babies will be checked about heart rate and other
reactions. They will be cleaned the white mucus that protects babies when they
are in the mothers’ womb. After finishing those manipulations, babies will be
held for mothers and how does this first moment take place?
Mothers will have a lot of mixing feelings:
painful, tired, exhausted, cheerful and proud. The presence of babies and
touching babies will be the remedy to eliminate that feeling.
The first look
Mothers
will never forget the first moment when they survey babies.
From the first look, babies seem to be
attracted by mothers’ face and voice and this is the voice that often talks
with them when they are in their mothers’ womb. Mother will look baby and 2
looks will meet together. At this time, mother will transmit loving and beloved
signal and surely, babies will feel the close relation and trust from look.
Simply, it is maternal love.
One thing that most mothers worry is when
babies have just been born, their eyes have red inflammation and they look like
rather cross-eyed. However, it is completely normal sign because eye muscles of
newborn babies are very weak. This thing is caused by spasm of uterus in the
process of giving birth, they must “somersault” in a long time before leaving
their mothers’ body. It takes about 1 month for babies’ eyes to operate
normally.
The first cry
After being born, children cannot adjust to
the noisy sounds and the temperature of the environment around, so babies will
cry. However, after some minutes later, they will be calmed and through that
cry, babies want to show their presence. You should ease baby cry by mother’s
loving voice or comforting baby’s skin. You should let babies contact with
mothers’ skin, so babies will feel warmth and listen to mothers’ heart rate. At
this time, babies will be calmed and stop crying immediately.
The first time of suck
Sucking
mother’s milk is also a special connection of maternal love.
Due to the wonderful relation, babies will
recognize the scent of mother’s body. According to natural reflex, babies will
find and put their head to mothers’ breast and mothers don’t have to be hard to
practice them. At this time, mothers will have confused feeling because giving
babies the breast is new and strange. You should make hygiene for breast and
nipple to be ready to raise babies with mother’s milk.
The first sleep
The pressure because of spasm of uterus and
the side effect of some kinds of reliever that mothers use in the process of
giving birth can make baby’s weak body be affected. That is the reason why the
first reaction of babies isn’t fast. Most newborn babies will sleep a lot when
they are born and mothers should stay next to them to comfort them when they
wake up. In the first moments, babies always need their mothers’ presence and
mothers shouldn’t forget this thing.
Most
newborn babies will sleep a lot when they are born and mothers should stay next
to them to comfort them when they wake up.
The first time of bathing
Some first days after giving birth, mothers
don’t need to bathe, they only need to wipe and wash baby’s body. However,
mothers need to pay attention that they should only wipe babies from 5 to 10
minutes to help babies prevent cold. After that, mothers will make babies’ body
dry with towel, embrace and take a loving care of so that babies can adjust to
washing up is the future.
The most important thing to babies is that
they stay with their mothers after being born. In addition, mothers take care
of them, give them the breast and embrace them in their loving arms.
