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The So-Called 'Time Management' Problems (Part 2)

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The deadline is your best friend

Victims think of a lot things they “should” be doing to improve their lives, but then they think are just too busy to do them now. They are soon focused on their troubles.

Warriors focus on the nest quantum leap of success. [In life, what you focus on grows.] The time warrior does surprisingly good things NOW.

His ruthless sword cuts through all the nonsense of impressing people and leaves only love and service in its wake.

Description: The deadline is your best friend

The deadline is your best friend

And now is when it all happens. And if it can’t literally happen now, the warrior sets precise deadline. Sets them up now. He sets the deadlines NOW, so that they are still in the NOW. Deadlines soon become the warrior’s best friend: “We’re our changing our price structure January 1st, we are hiring our new marketing director and made over by April 30th and we will have the whole neighborhood papered with our new flier by noon Friday.”

The more seriously you regard your deadlines and the more you keep your word on meeting your deadlines, the stronger you get internally. The higher your self-esteem becomes. The more you trust yourself.

Description: I can never feel stress because I’m always working within my day.

I can never feel stress because I’m always working within my day.

I experience a stressed-out feeling whenever I think about the deadline for a creative project. But my stress comes from having that project be in the future.

Non-linear time management doesn’t allow that line that stretches into the future. Because the linear thought process always produces stress. Unreasonable stress.

Here’s what always works for me. Creating my perfect day. Figuring out what I’d have to do in one day [today] to automatically meet the deadline.

So if my book is 220 pages, I know that if I write two pages a day I can finish it in less than five months [my deadline]. So I have a new project. It isn’t a book, it’s two pages. Today. That’s all I have to do, and it’s all I ever have to worry about. Two pages. It’s fun. It’s exciting. And it’s very satisfying.

Some days I get on a passionate roll and write ten pages! Nothing can stop me! So I’m way ahead of deadline. I can sometimes het ahead. I can never, ever – wish this system – fall behind. It’s a system called “today”. I can never feel stress because I’m always working within my day. I don’t stretch a linear into the future.

Can you see it? Non-linear time management doesn’t ever have a long timeline. It has two choices: now or not now.

No more overwhelm

Sometimes people think radical, innovative time management is something they are going to have to get into later. Right now, they are dealing with a difficult situation. And they are feeling overwhelmed. They don’t realize something important.

Situations – even “dramatic” situations like bankruptcy, divorce, death and economic recession – canonot directly cause a feeling of any kind until the brain interprets and creates a story about said situation.

Description: Right now, they are dealing with a difficult situation. And they are feeling overwhelmed. They don’t realize something important.

Right now, they are dealing with a difficult situation. And they are feeling overwhelmed. They don’t realize something important.

Your problem is not that you are overwhelmed. Your problem is an attachment to the story of overwhelm. Truth-fully, are you overwhelmed or do you just feel that way? Let us really, really look at your last five days. Let’s just isolate one of the hours. Let’s take a look at this “overwhelm” and see if it’s really there.

You are not, in this hour we’re chosen to look at, at all overwhelmed, are you? Not in this particular hour.

But your story is that you are.

You can drop that story. You can tell a different story, try this story: “I’ve only got one thing to do! How liberating. It’s the thing I’m doing right now.”

Sadness, depression, frustration, upset, and anxiety can only be produced by seeing a situation and then producing an interpretation of it and then believing that interpretation. So, therefore, you and I can only be overwhelmed by our thoughts about something, never the thing itself.

Description: In a simple life in which you only what’s in front of you, there can be no overwhelm, ever. That life is yours to create.

In a simple life in which you only what’s in front of you, there can be no overwhelm, ever. That life is yours to create.

I keep daydreaming a scene I’d like to put in a book or movie. A mad man [Me? Why not?] lives in a mental ward. [Me? It fits.] Each day they let this man into the recreation room. He’s in his pajamas. He sits down at the circular table. The attendant gives him a big blank pad of paper and a box of crayons. He takes out the crayons and draws the head of a monster. He stares at the monster, screams, and runs out of the room.

The whole thing looks funny to the attendant. It looks, shall we say it … insane. The poor mad man is scaring himself to death!

And crazy as that lokks, we ourselves do that each day. We use our crayons [our imagination] to scare ourselves instead of to create.

When we imagine [perceive] that we are overwhelmed by outside events [or options, or tough choices, or situations, or ways of making money, etc.] It is an illusion, because the brain doesn’t even function that way.

Only a thought believed can produce a feeling of overwhelm. Something happens, and we add the meaning of it. Circumstance carries no meaning by itself.

In a simple life in which you only what’s in front of you, there can be no overwhelm, ever. That life is yours to create.

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