Raising a violent child can separate your family and destroy
the peace in your family. Replace hopelessness and desperateness you feel with
optimism. Compensation strategies can meet your child’s demand without
nourishing the violent behavior in children. Look for alternative solutions
instead of focusing on the problem, and don’t give up. You can revolve and
change your child’s violent behavior with healthy interactions that power for
the meaningful personal relationships.
Active engagement
Spend time with your children. Know what he likes and
dislikes. Participate in activities that make him exciting and find common
interests. Encourage the communicational and open atmosphere. Find ways to
praise him when you can. Spend much time to understand your child. Create an
effectively communicational atmosphere between both with as many positive
interactions as possible.
Raising a violent
child can separate your family and destroy the peace in your family.
Talk to the teacher
Know your child’s teacher at the beginning of each school
year. Ask them to notify you about the academic progress of your child and
difficulties when the school year is over. Know the school’s counselor and all
the teachers before troubles occur. Take part in the parent-teacher
organization and other organizations within the school which have effect on the
social and educational development of your child
Limit the violent affections
Limit video games, TV and movies your child watches that
have violence, abuse, drugs, women abuse, racism content or obscene language.
An International academy warns us that these media affections have a part in
causing lack of social skill, poor performance in school, health problem due to
lack of exercising and increasing violent behavior. Choose the games, movies
and TV shows carefully to allow your children to watch. Discuss about violence
you see and the results of the violent behavior. Notice the ratings of video
games and choose carefully based on the content of these games.
Limit video games,
TV and movies your child watches that have violence, abuse, drugs, women abuse,
racism content or obscene language.
Be a role model for right behavior
Your child learns more by watching than listening to what
you say. Let your child see that you react gently and respect other. Show your
kindness, patience and willingness to compromise through your personal
relationships. Be a role model for the behavior that you want to see in
children so that they can consider these behaviors as practical reality.
Aggressive V.S decisive
Teach your child to ask for what they want without being
demanding. Healthy relationships require you the willingness to impart your
demand in the way that considers others’ feelings. Teach your child to maintain
the healthy personal relationships by communicating his desire without hurting
others or damaging other properties in the rages.
Teach your child
to maintain the healthy personal relationships by communicating his desire
without hurting others or damaging other properties in the rages.
