In many cases, it is parents who germinate
children’s mistakes.
Reasons causing children to commit crime
The result of investigating criminals at teenagers
shows that the factor deciding the seeds of crime in children is the education
when they are newborns. The thing you should avoid absolutely is pampering them
too much, which causes the fact that the children will grow up in
irresponsibility.
Research on teenage criminals reveals the
main cause of crimes:
·
Lacking patience
·
Parents are too strict.
·
Too much expectation
·
Pampering too much
All understand that the first reason of
crimes is the lack in patience without any suffering ability. We must not
educate children by pampering. Children are educated in the way they want
cannot bring out any results in which children’s brain develop freely. It is
only the way you pamper your children, teaching them to be selfish ones. If you
only pamper them without teaching them how to suffer, their minds will rocket.
Once the claims are satisfied, the next claims will arise.
If
you only pamper them without teaching them how to suffer
Parents do not teach children how to
suffer, and satisfy all children’s claims which will be the good basement for
the children to ask for more and more rights. The dissatisfaction of children
does not start from the force to suffer, but from the point that you don’t
teach them how to suffer. Parents should know that, when children are adapted
too much, they will become dissatisfaction. Children knowing to suffer do not
have this dissatisfaction.
In France, children in middle-class family
rarely commit crimes. It is because, when they were children, they were
educated strictly, so they know what they want and dissatisfaction doesn’t
exist in it.
The second reason for committing crimes is
that children grow up in such a strict education by parents. This case is
opposite to the above reason. This is the strict education, and you don’t admit
the children’s achievement, always complain, and scold. These kinds of parents
are more than we can imagine.
Many mothers mostly complain about the
children. They do not understand when they do that, the talents of children
will be lost. Everyday living in parents’ complaints, children absolutely have
wrong emotions.
Everyday
living in parents’ complaints, children absolutely have wrong emotions.
We want to warn that: being scolded so
much, children tend to commit crimes.
The third reason of committing crimes is
the over-expectation from parents. You need to make sure that your children
know their abilities, and have full grasp of those. For children under 1 year
old, this is extremely important. All 0-year-old children are talents, so the
way of thinking “this can be known by anyone” is wrong, completely. Teach them
how to make full use of talented factors that they have. To reach the stage
when the children can express their own abilities, parents must have such
patience and education skill. With no skill, merely thinking “every single
child on this Earth knows this, and my children as well” is a signal of
over-expectation.
Children, to whom you put too much hope and
expectation, will not be strong enough to satisfy that expectation, and they
will feel that they are so dull. Or they express the opposing strongly against
parents. If parents are not good at detecting and nourishing the children’s
talent and only put expectation in them, children will feel that they are in
hell. Then, they may get sick, or hate studying, or do not want to go to
school, or commit suicides.
Parents have to know the secret of
nourishing their talents, so that they grow up to be the nice people. All
children are talents. If they do not become talented people, it is because
parents don’t know how to instruct them.
Believe that children are talents. Be
patient, and teach them while playing. They are useful lessons, allowing them
to do adequate tasks to enforce their beliefs. If you can do that, all children
will be nice.
The fourth reason is that children are
taken care of too much by parents. Parents do everything for them. These
children wean slowly, and they are childlike all the time, being emotive and
selfish and having no social communication. Some strange mothers know clearly
that teaching children from 0 year old is so important, but rush into teaching
them knowledge without mentioning rules and principles. For example, 3 year-old
children going to kinder garden know how to read well but cannot undress by
themselves. Then, they only burst into tears. We understand that her mother has
done everything for them, extremely. This education style only degrades the
self-awareness of children.
They want to do, but cannot do. As a
result, a feeling of dissatisfaction arises inside them. This is the reason
that leads to the criminals.
