Babies a New Life : Feeding, Sleeping, and Crying How to raise a contented baby (part 2) - Co-sleeping Safe for baby?

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Q: I will spoil my baby if I pick him up as soon as he cries?
A: No! Your baby is crying because he needs you and his only way to call too you is to cry. When you go to him right away and wrap him in your arms, you are teaching him that he is safe and secure, that he is important to you, and that you’re there for him. Studies have shown that babies who are responded to quickly when upset grow up to be happier, more confident children.
Q: It is easier for me to hear my baby when he wakes than my partner?
A: Mothers do seem to be more sensitive to their baby’s cries and will wake up very quickly when the baby stirs in the night. Although you’ll tend to be first to notice her, both you and your partner will feel a sense of urgency to go to your crying infant. This is specific to your child and you won’t get the same sensation if you hear another baby cry.
Q: The more babies sleep, the more they sleep?
A: This is entirely true. Each time your baby successfully nods, off she is practicing how to go to sleep. Reducing or eliminating daytime naps in a desperate attempt to have your infant sleep at night only causes overtiredness which often makes sleep more difficult to achieve.

A good night’s sleep An impossible achievement?

Go to any parent-and-baby group and the most common topic of conversation is sleep—usually the lack of it. There is no doubt that the amount of sleep you get takes a dive once your baby is born. You’ll be up in the night to offer feedings or comfort, and you may wake up to her every snuffle even when she remains blissfully asleep.

In her first few days, your focus will probably be on developing your confidence with your new baby, and her sleep won’t be in any sort of routine. However, bright daylight and plenty of things to look at in the daytime, combined with less excitement, dimmer lights, and plenty of calming cuddles in the evening will gradually get her into a day-and-night pattern that suits family life.

When your baby is a few weeks old, you may be ready to tackle her sleep patterns. At first you can expect her to need more than 16 hours sleep per day, with up to four naps and a longer sleep during the night. By three months old she’ll want about 13 hours’ sleep, which includes three naps per day, reducing to two naps by about six months of age. This pattern of reducing need for sleep will continue; at one year old she’ll average just under 12 hours and will need only one nap.

  • Read the signs

    Learn your baby’s ways of showing she is tired—maybe pulling at her ear, twirling her hair, or rubbing her face. Settle her to sleep as soon as you notice these signs, before she is overtired (when getting to sleep is harder).

  • Get the light right

    Try for dim light and low noise where your baby sleeps. Bright light and a lot of activity will keep her awake. No noise at all, however, can be a problem, as she’s more likely to be woken later when the silence is broken by other family members getting ready for bed.

  • Routine, routine, routine

    Follow the same pattern every night; for example, bathe then feed her before sharing a story and putting her in her crib. Always putting her to sleep in the same place will help her link this place with sleep time.

  • Repeat yourself

    Work out a simple bedtime message, such as “night-night, sleep well” and repeat this each time you put your baby down. This is another cue to tell her that it is time to sleep.

  • Touch

    Your baby may be soothed by gentle patting or stroking as she lies in her crib. Even a calm hand placed on her head or body reassures her that she’s safe and can sleep.

  • Keep it the same

    A regular bedtime routine, at the same time every night and with calming routines, can help your baby learn the difference between night and day so she’ll know it’s time for sleep.

Co-sleeping Safe for baby?

Many experts recommend that your baby sleep in your room with you for the first six months. You might want to co-sleep: to share your bed with your baby. The debate about the benefits versus dangers of this method rages among parents and professionals with pros and cons on each side. Some research suggests that you should not co-sleep with a baby of less than three months

  • A quiet night

    Co-sleeping can result in your baby waking less often and going back to sleep more quickly, so there may be extra rest for you.

  • Laid-back night feeds

    It’s certainly easier to breastfeed if you are simply turning over in bed to do so, rather than getting up to your baby. You’re likely to breastfeed for longer if you co-sleep.

  • Building bonds

    Sleeping together means more time nestled up with your baby feeling close. However, it’s the love and attention you give her when she’s awake that creates the strong attachment between you, so she’ll still develop her sense of security whether she sleeps snug in her crib or cozy in bed with you.

  • You, your partner, and your baby

    Having your baby in your bed can be an effective, if unintended, contraceptive by making sex an impossibility. Sometime or other you’re going to want your physical intimacy back, and a baby in bed doesn’t allow for a sex life.

  • Co-sleeping safety

    Some experts state it is never safe, while others offer safety guidance.

    Don’t co-sleep if:

    • You take medication that makes you drowsy.

    • You smoke, even if you don’t smoke in bed.

    • You have any alcohol or drugs in your system.

    • You are very tired or have a sleep disorder.

    • Your baby was premature or weighed less than (51/2 lbs (2.5 kg) at birth or is under three months.

    • You’re sleeping on a sofa, armchair, or waterbed.

    • Other children share the bed with you, too.


Babies who co-sleep have been shown to sleep better and breastfeed more. You’ll appreciate the time together to reconnect with your child if you’re out at work all day.

Keep it safe

If you have doubts about co-sleeping, another option is a specifically designed bassinet that attaches to the side of the bed, or a regular bassinet elsewhere in your room.

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