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German parents train their children to be independent in a skillful and efficient way.

Others can have different thoughts about the German, but to me, like a country where boys sometimes have chances to know the city, Germany has made quite an impression on me, and sometimes, it’s a surprise.

Unlike the subtle and elegant French, the enthusiastic Italian, the apathetic but humorous English, the outgoing Holland, the German could bring us a bit disappointment for their coldness. Moreover, the German is believed to have their lifestyle and working style kept under strict discipline, to be independent and reliable. The German can be cool with you at first but, in fact, they have plenty of hospitality.

Having lived and worked in Germany for 4 years, I like the country for its view, people, etc… I also have some interest in the way they educate their children.

German kids always do things independently.

German kids always do things independently.

The German thinks that every child has its pros and cons and its own growing way. For that reason, if a child has a slow development in one behavior, its parents will never compare it to others in order not to make it feel weak and discouraged.

German parents teach their children to be independent in every little thing they do since their early age, while some moms hate the fact that their preschool kids are around them all day, and they keep telling their children what to do, or often scold at them like “Stay away! I’m cooking/baking” or “Go play with your father. I’m cooking the vegetables”…, German moms never refuse a good chance like that to train their children.

German children have to carrying their stuff on their own.

German children have to carrying their stuff on their own.

When German moms are baking, their children will be arranged to stand next to them and watch. They will sometimes give their children some instructions and seduction so that the children will join baking with them. They don’t say: “Do not touch it. Let me do it quickly”. Moms really can do it quickly, but children will never be able to learn anything as their parents keep doing things for them.

So, when you do the laundry, let your children put their clothes in the washing machine; when you clean the house, give your children a towel, point at an area and say “This is what you need to do”… Children are quick learners and they can remember things for a long time, so all you need to do is to give them an instruction and they’ll do it on their own next time.

German parents teach their children to be independent in every little thing they do since their early age.

German parents teach their children to be independent in every little thing they do since their early age.

Another thing that you should learn from the German about their child educating is to teach your children to eat independently and healthily.

While some moms have to carry their children in their arms to make them eat, or jump up and down, do everything just to make their children eat foods, German moms apply rules right in the first meal. They teach their children to sit and eat with them, and the children have to wait till everybody come up to start eating. Because of that, there’s nothing to be surprised at a one-year-old German who can eat independently; if they can’t eat food by their spoons, they’ll use their hands. At first, they can give food to their noses, ears, but later it will go to their mouth anyway…

German kids eat foods by themselves.

German kids eat foods by themselves.

Teaching children to follow the rule and to be independent does not mean forcing them to follow your rules. The German don’t teach their children to become robots or lacking in childhood affection, feelings, or only focus on the success… German parents create the standard that their children need to follow in their own way.

German moms will never give the complement like: “You’re the best”, “You’re the number one”…If they want to raise their children for their children, they will make it specifically by mentioning their achievement, character’s advantages, or their willing spirit…

For example, when children finish collecting their toys, which their mothers have told them to do, if their moms want to encourage them, they will say: “I’m glad you did your job”…   

Besides, the German is believed that: a polite person always arrives on time. Therefore, since German children were young, they have been taught to be on time.

For example, if parents decide to have a picnic at 8 a.m. or sooner on the following day, children will be on time to leave for the picnic. In Germany, there’s no way parents carry all the stuff and children just walk with their white hands. German children from the ages of 2 to 3 have to carry their stuff; their parents won’t carry anything for them unless they’re sick.

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