Babies only feel safe when they know that
they are loved. Parents should do 10 following ways to show love to babies
every day.
All parents want their children have good
friends in life, learn how to share sympathize and forgive for other people’s
mistake, receive love and the best things that life brings. So, helping babies
feel love can help babies know how to love everyone, and this is an important
thing. The following ways will help you express love to babies.
1. Let babies express themselves
You should give babies a space so that
babies can express themselves the freest and this is the way that show love to
babies.
Supporting babies show themselves through
positive behaviors is very good; however, you shouldn’t hurry in evaluating
babies and you must have immediate adjustment when you recognize that babies
have negative behaviors. Negative behavior is a reaction when babies have things
that they don’t trust and feel pleasant. Instead of this, you should talk with
babies, support them to create trust between parents and children. After that
you will recognize that babies will naturally come to you when they need a
shoulder to share.
2. Wake babies up with a smile
This thing seems to be simple, but you
should think how to do this thing regularly, normally “Wake up”.
Beginning a new day with a smile can create
happy and love rhythm for the rest time in day of children. Therefore, you
shouldn’t be afraid of showing love to babies with smiles.
You
should show love to babies with smiles.
3. Say yes with suggestions about hugging and kissing of babies
Sometimes, you will be disturbed; however,
hugs will bring babies with trust and safeness. Through hugs, you can have deep
look about emotion and thought of children, and as a result, babies can
recognize parents’ love.
Hugs
will bring babies with trust and safeness.
4. Listen
You should really listen and you shouldn’t
be diverted by any stories that babies tell you. This is a way that helps you
express love to babies because sometimes you are busy with work and have
sundries such as cooking, tidy up house and often ignore to listen to stories
that babies tell by halves.
When you listen to their story, you should
look their eyes to prove that you really listen. If you cannot listen, you
should promise with babies that you will talk to them when you can.
5. Give babies suggestions
Babies can study many things after being
done, listened, heard and felt. When you ask babies for idea about some
problem, babies can feel that they are respected and have right. You can
suggest babies to attend problems of family such as what your family will eat.
This thing doesn’t mean that babies can be decided completely, but it is
meaningful to their emotion.
6. Small things
Tidy up their bed, a piece of paper that
sends message for babies to have lunch, a bar of chocolate for babies on the
way to home from school… These small things will help babies feel that babies
are loved more.
Sometimes the way to express love to babies
is just small things.
When parents don’t make promise, it will
make babies have untrusting feeling and feel that they aren’t important.
Therefore, never make empty promise. Before making a promise, you should be sure
that you can do it, and when you cannot make, you should explain the reason to
help babies understand.
7. Discover language of babies
You can feel that you are loved and
respected if your husband comes home with a bunch of flower or help you with
sundries in the house, and so do babies. Sometimes, children only need simple
actions, but they make children feel that they are loved.
Hence, you should find out things that can
make your children feel to be special and you can feel love of children.
8. Spend special time for babies
You can spend a day in week or a day in
month that is special to babies. This thing will intensify association and the relationship
between parents and children. It provides parents chance to share life with
children and find out things that are taking place in children’s world.
You can let babies make plan for the next
special days and ensure that the days like this will take place regularly due
to plan. At that time, although life is busy, babies will know that their
parents will spend special time for them.
Parents
should spend special time for babies.
9. Say “I love you”
A child won’t feel to be redundant thing if
you say that “I love you”. You can say so when you say good bye before children
go to school, go to bed, and even when babies have incorrect actions; however,
if you say “I love you although you aren’t the best child”, babies will feel
limitless love that you give them.
The above way for showing love to babies
will help they feel love from their parents and family You should ensure that
these actions should be done as much as possible because they are root of love
without condition that you give your children.
