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Description: New Dad

Their hands-on parenting can inspire, or give you a complex! Say hello to new-age dads this Father’s Day!

My 6-year-old shares a bond with me that most mothers and daughters are likely to have. But, when I observe her narrating an incident that happened in school exclusively to her dad, I realize that a father’s role in a child’s life is not just different, but also indispensable and special. Over the years, the role of a father has undergone a drastic change, especially in India. We asked some experts and dads from across the nation to share their insights.

A new role

Description: A new role

Hyderabad-based Ravi Nair, who works the night shift with a software firm, fondly remembers his 7-year-old son’s nappy-changing days. “My wife had a C-section, so I knew she would need to rest, especially at night. So, I took a break from office and stepped in to manage the initial child-care duties like changing nappies full of poo; sometimes even washing them,” he says. “I never felt that this was a role alien to me; in fact, I feel that it made a crucial difference in my bonding with my child,” he adds.

This scenario would possibly not have occurred a few decades ago. However, “We are noticing a shift in traditional parental roles, specially in upper class India,” says Jodhpur-based sociologist Dr. Kirti Rajimwale. “Although our society is still mostly patriarchal, joint families are now being replaced by nuclear ones, and as more and more women are going out to work, fathers are realizing that their involvement is a necessity for both the child and the mother,” she adds. Also, she notes that earlier with larger families and joint living, children had siblings and cousins to share things with, so the absence of the father was not so apparent, but now with single kids and the size of the family shrinking, fathers are needed and missed.

What’s more, popular celebrity culture is also reflecting this trend. “With more and more examples like Saif Ali Khan or Aamir Khan, who have never hesitated in showing their delicate side, on the rise,” says Mumbai-based psychotherapist Reema Shah, it’s quite cool to be seen in an involved father’s role. Hollywood too has several hands-on dads like Brad Pitt and David Beckham.

What’s driving it?

Description: What’s driving it?

Child Advisor Reena Nath feels that this shift in roles has been pushed by socio-economic factors. “It’s not just emancipation and evolution of the parenting role, but also compulsion. In an atmosphere where there is no job security, and promotion are also not a given, women have had to step in and till the monetary gap,” she observes. “Men recognize this reality too, but the positive change has been that even if they are filling in for moms out of a sense of compulsion, they are not complaining. They are thrilled to explore this new dimension to their role,” she adds.

Even Shah has noticed a change in her field – counseling. Earlier fathers would come only when called in, today, they accompany their kids from the very first meeting onwards. Also, since there is an influx of women into the workforce, men have chosen to either provide support by being there with their children when Mom is out, or to even explore the option of working from home. Many companies are offering flexible timings and work options, in recognition of this paradigm shift.

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