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A bond that lasts

Description: A bond that lasts

A father’s influence can have various positive outcomes as in the two following cases. Dekhi-base criminal lawyer V. Madhukar didn’t mind coming back home twice or thrice a day form his chambers to look after his 1-year-old son Devarya (now 3). “My wife’s office was in Gurgaon, so it didn’t make sense to leave our son with the babysitter for 8 to 10 hours when my workplace was so close. Even today, I’m always at hand in case I’m needed. This has actually given my son s number of opportunities to share his most private things with me. For instance, when we go for a walk, he initiates a conversation which could range from a complaint about his school teacher, or an account of why he was scolded in class,” says Madhukar.

Ipshita Ghosh, 7, from Raipur, was never a sporty kid, as her dad recalls. “I was in manufacturing, and my line of work demanded a lot of travel. But while my daughter never really showed any signs of loneliness because of my absence, her mother told me that she was spending much more time indoors in front of the TV and computer, than playing outdoors. That’s when I decided to get involved, and started playing ‘catch’ with her just to spark an interest. Today, she loves playing cricket with her friends in the colony park,” says her happy dad.

When a father gets involved wholeheartedly, it starts manifesting in the overall personality of the child. Shah states that a “child starts blossoming”. She adds that a father plays a unique role in a child’s life, and a lot of studies have proved that a more involved father could result in a child with a better understanding. Also, since the need of the hour is to be competitive and achievement-oriented, this involvement is also helpful in improving a child’s overall development.

Schools are also becoming much more inclusive of fathers. “My daughter’s school always insists that both Mom and Dad mark their presence for PTMs,” says Puri-based Kedar Ojha. While this may not be the case with each and every school, Nath says that many shools are trying to focus on ideal parent, and appreciate it when the father takes out time for his children.

The added advantage

Description: The added advantage

Although there is a huge overlap in roles today, especially since both parents are working, there are certain skills that children learn only from a mother, and some only from their fathers. Globally, research shows that a child learns achievement-oriented skills from his father, and this learning starts at a very early stage. “When he spends more time with father, or with his Mon and Dad, a child is likely to have better linguistic and verbal skills, better self-esteem, higher cognitive capacity, and tends to form better social connections. Also, right from birth he will be emotionally more secure, and less likely to go through depression, or masked depression, or even show any disruptive behavior. All this ultimately leads to a healthier adolescence and teenage. Toddlers particularly, start school with higher academic readiness, and separation anxiety is reduced,” adds Shah.

Dad = Fun

Description: Dad = Fun

These dads make the time to have fun with their kids.

“I adopted Arjun when he was 2; I was unmarried then, so I’ve done all that a mom could do. Now, we do a lot of fun things together – movies, the beach, car races at home. I feel you should look at your child not as a responsibility but use these moments as an opportunity to grow with him” – Sandip Soparrkar, choreographer and dad to 7-year-old Arjun.

“I’m always there for my son during weekends. He likes to play with Lego and shows me whatever he makes. We play a lot of cricket. This month, I am planning to go trekking with him. And yes, this is all minus his mom.”-Anirudh Dhoot, Director, Videocon, dad to 4-year-old Raunak.

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