Moms should talk a look on the following
advice to stabilize mother-child connections.
There’re many women let other people in
their family (their mothers) take care of their babies, which results in the
fact that their children love the people more than them.
Breastfeed
When
breastfeeding, mothers can be free in talking, pour their heart and show their
love to their children.
A part from the popular benefits from
breastfeeding like supporting children’s digestion and cognition, increasing
immunity..., the breastfeeding can help strengthen the emotional connection
between mothers and children.
When breastfeeding, mothers can be free in
talking, pour their heart and show their love to their children. The activity
is not only good for the babies, but for their mothers as they will be happy
for days, hours holding their children in their arms, talking to their children
and see the children getting grown day by day within the complete confidence in
giving the children their best. The emotions will be an invisible connection
strengthen mother-child affair.
Spend much time with children
According to specialists, there’re many
children grown up lacking gallantry and tenderness of their parents, which
makes them no longer close to their parents. So, how should we open children’s
heart? The answer is “Spending time with them”.
Children are good at recognizing the person
really love them. However, if you love your children but fail in arranging the
time being with them, children hardly feel your love no matter how big it is.
Make
your limited timescale possible for being with your children.
For that reason, make your limited
timescale possible for being with your children. The time parents spend with
their children a day can be not so much but have to be regular.
You can’t ask your children to miss you
while you don’t talk with them often or care about them. Spend time together
drawing a panting, playing puzzle, reading a book, playing chess….
This is the best way to make children feel
the love of their parents for them. There’s only one way to make children love
you, which is to love them.
Remember when playing with children, you
should leave the worries aside, be fully focused on the children. Be active in
holding games and attract children’s interests and enthusiasm. Do not let the
daily worries and pressure affect you because children are very sensitive, they
can realize your neglect though it’s lightly shown.
When
playing with children, you should leave the worries aside, be fully focused on
the children.
Make chance to cuddle and coddle your children
Being coddled is a big need of children. Of
course, parents need to be smart in distinguish the boundary between coddling
and spoiling as the later one makes children naughty.
However, don’t be so focused on how to
educate children and forget their reasonable needs and requires, making
children misunderstand that their mothers don’t love them.
According to specialists, children who are
10 years old still have the need of being coddled by their moms. Nonetheless,
not every child is good at expressing the need of being cuddled by their
mother. Therefore, moms should be the active ones for children to express their
most natural needs.
To
a child, a healthy growth is not simply based on material value but with
spiritual.
Today, there’re many moms being so busy
with their work that they get neglected of their children’s condition.
Nevertheless, moms should spend time
hugging their children whether it’s 10 or 15 minutes. Make the most chance to
be with your children.
Seeing mothers after a long day makes
children really happy but, if mothers disappoint children from time to time,
children will stop feeling for you.
Finally, to a child, a healthy growth is
not simply based on material value but with spiritual. Raise children with love
by strengthen the connection between parents and children so that children can
be happy and have good personalities in later time.
