Your hot temper may not give any result.
When
teaching kid, it’s very important to be patient.
As parents, you are vulnerable to get angry
when teaching kids. In case you may lose your temper when kids don’t obey, it’s
recommended to consider these tips.
1. Think that your kid is still innocent
Kid’s misbehavior may not be on purpose. Parents
get annoyed by either their kid’s innocence or their disappointment. Infant
often make mistake and breaks things. However, don’t tell your kid off for just
a broken glass. You should take this chance to teach it how to handle a glass
properly or only lets it hold plastic-made glass then forgive the mistake.
Additionally, in the period when kids are
learning to walk, they may show disappointment via intolerance – the result of
undeveloped language. If kids cannot say what they want, their behaviors tend
to be annoying. Thus, you should always keep calm and forget all the mistakes.
2. Give your kid the right to choose
Kids like to disobey parent, especially
when they are not allowed. If you conflict with your kid about clothes, you
should give it the right to choose what it wants instead of forcing it to
follow your choice. Just give your kid two options, for example “Which one
would you prefer, red or yellow?” This will make parents less frustrated.
Giving kids options is a way to improve their
independence.
3. Rethink about yourself
Are you always shouting at your kid? Are
you always staring at TV at evening? Do you seldom eat vegetables? Don’t hope
kids to have good habits while parents don’t. You ought to be a good example
for your kid. Children are often replicas of their parents. They copy parents’
talks, actions, behaviors, routines… Therefore, you have to behave properly all
the time.
4. Don’t make a fuss with trivia
You
mustn’t waste your temper for such a small mistake of kids.
If you kid throws a small piece of cake
down to the floor, there’s no problem. If you want kids to behave politely and
live tidily, don’t rush because they are still kids. Don’t have high
expectation and talk impolitely in front of kids at any time. Plus, you mustn’t
waste your temper for such a small mistake of kids. Simply be patient with kids,
remind them of that then forgive everything. It’s better to give kids
compliments as well as concentrate on their achievements instead of blame kids
for small mistake.
