If you’re trying to get pregnant in your
late thirties or forties and it’s not happening, how late should you wait? Dr
Rosemary Leonard gives her personal view.
After
35, it’s quite normal for it to take a year to conceive, which is why some
doctors say wait a year before seeking help. I don’t agree – unless you’ve
already had at least one child with the same partner within the past five
years. If you’re trying for your first baby as a couple (regardless of whether
you’ve had children with other partners), then six months is enough, no matter
what your age. This is especially the case if you know you may have a problem,
such as very irregular periods, or a previous pelvic infection.
If you’re trying for your first baby
together, get help after six months
Help from your gp
It’s
helpful if you give your GP a menstrual diary and note of when you have sex.
The problem can just be wrong timing – or trying too hard (that can lower the
sperm count)
Your
GP should offer a blood test, to be done during a period, which will check
baseline hormone levels, including follicle – stimulating hormone (FSH),
luteinizing hormone (LH) plus levels of prolactin and thyroid hormones, which
also affect ovulation. A high FSH level, and a low anti-Mullerian hormone or
AMH level can indicate the ovaries are running out of follicles, which a high
LH level may indicate polycystic ovarian syndrome, which can lead to erratic
ovulation and periods.
A
check of whether ovulation has occurred can be done by testing progesterone
levels seven days after the estimated date of ovulation. Home ovulation test are
a useful starting point.
Some
GPs may also be able to arrange an AMH level check, a measure of ovarian
reserves. It’s worth asking for one if you’re in your late thirties, although
NHS availability varies.
At
least a third of infertility cases are due to a male factor so your partner
should give a semen sample, done by appointment at hospital. This shows the
number of normal and abnormal sperm and checks for infection. This can be
treated with antibiotics or – if it’s a borderline result – by lifestyle
changes such as stopping smoking and reducing alcohol intake.
If
you’ve had heavy or painful periods, a pelvic ultrasound scan can rule out
fibroids or ovarian cysts. But to detect blocked tubes, a dye test at a
fertility clinic is needed.
Should you see a fertility expert?
The
next step is to see a fertility expert, who will assess whether you may benefit
from something like intrauterine insemination (IUI) before considering IVF.
Whether you can be seen free of charge on the NHS varies according to rules set
by your local Primary Care Trust (PCT) or GP commissioning board.
There
are guidelines (available on nhs.uk) about IVF availability, such as an upper
age limit of 39 and being infertile for at least three years, although many
doctors would be prepared to take a lenient view on this for someone in their
late thirties, who has been trying for say, two years. However, PCT’s have
additional exclusion criteria, such as having no existing children from any
previous relationship. In some areas, these rules are also applied to other
treatments and even to referral to a fertility clinic. You should be able to
find out the rules in your area from either your GP or your PCT website.
What about going private?
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The
stringent NHS rules mean that, for many couples, paying for treatment is the
only option. Price and the chances of success can vary enormously, but before
you pay anything, talk to your GP about what treatment you’re likely to need,
and your chances of success.
For
example, treatment with drugs alone to stimulate ovulation is likely to be a lot
cheaper than IVF. ICSI (intracytoplasmic sperm injection), used where the sperm
count is low, is a specialised form of IVF where a single sperm is used to
fertilise the egg, and is even more expensive.
Then do your homework by checking websites.
Top of your list should be the HFEA (hfea.gov.uk), which licenses all fertility
clinics, check their prices. You can often save money by taking results of
tests already done by your GP, but don’t expect your GP to prescribe any
medication – that has to come from the clinic, and can add considerably to your
final bill.