Pregnancy is a time plentiful with ups and downs, quick
changes and interesting moments for you and your husband. However, you may not
know what your husband want to know during the exciting time. Does he have
questions about what happens to you or fears about what the future would give?
By keeping him informed, talking about intimacy, mentioning about anxieties and
solving his fears, you’ll maintain a healthy communications and intimacy
through the pregnancy.
Keep your husband informed
Let your husband know
about changes happening in your body as well as things happening to the baby.
Let your husband know about changes happening in your body
as well as things happening to the baby. You can invite your husband to go with
you when going to the hospital for an ultrasound test. Meanwhile, explain to
him about how big your baby is or even tell him about the sex of the baby if he
wants to know. You should share with your husband books about pregnancy and
underline important parts. Communicating with your husband about every change
you are experiencing will help him know what you’re suffering and support the
relationship during your life’s time of events.
Talk about intimacy
Don’t be afraid of
discussing about intimacy with your husband because there’re chances it presents
in his thought though he doesn’t tell you about it.
Don’t be afraid of discussing about intimacy with your
husband because there’re chances it presents in his thought though he doesn’t
tell you about it. Right understanding will help most married couples increase
the pleasure of intimacy in pregnancy. Let him know what you like, and what you
like to do at the moment. You can also let him know about he shouldn’t be
afraid of hurting the baby during the intercourse.
Mention your anxieties
Showing your husband things making you worried in pregnancy
will help build connections and feelings of closeness. You can concern about
the delivery or question yourself about whether you can give nature birth.
There’re chances that your husband will help you, but he never knows what you
need if you don’t tell him about it. Show what you’re worried about and listen
carefully to his responses. The open communications will strengthen the
relationship and give you hopes on futures.
Solve his fears
Let him be open-minded
and honest about what is in his mind and you’ll succeed in giving him the faith
in the upcoming journey of parenthood.
Your husband may have private fears that he doesn’t want to
tell you about. This is completely normal, because most men want to make clear
the idea whether they’re good fathers, whether their babies are born normally
and whether the delivery goes smoothly. Let him know that it’s not going to be
easy but you’ll be there to support him throughout the process. Let him be
open-minded and honest about what is in his mind and you’ll succeed in giving
him the faith in the upcoming journey of parenthood.
