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Your children can be good even without any punishment.

How to create your children habits of respecting the rule and living disciplinal life without punishment must be in very much in concerns.

Let’s check out those following shares and educating methods for children in particular situations.

Your children can be good even without any punishment.

Your children can be good even without any punishment.

Children don’t want to go to bed on time

Children often don’t recognize the importance of regular activities, especially of sleeping on time and fully. Usually, they are always attracted to games and forget the sleepiness and determinedly refuse going to bed without any concern that it’s very late.

Usually, they are always attracted to games and forget the sleepiness and determinedly refuse going to bed without any concern that it’s very late.

Usually, they are always attracted to games and forget the sleepiness and determinedly refuse going to bed without any concern that it’s very late.

What should moms do?

Control your children’s sleeping time and don’t let them be arbitrary, sleep whenever they want. To settle your children in sleeping on time, you should be patient and ingenious. Every day, instead of order them like: “Brush your teeth, wear your pajama and get into bed!” You should give them joy in sleeping preparations, like: ”You want to brush teeth or wear pajama first?”. That will make them feel comfortable and responsible for their actions.

A picture of a sound sleep of their favorite cartoon character or friends placing next to the bed can remind them sleeping.

Children do naughty things in public

Children are not yet able to control their behaviors and feelings. For examples, when you’re shopping, busy with choosing vegetables, you children insist you on buying them remote control car. And when you say ‘no’, they still keep on nagging or even cry loudly and cause great attention. In the situation, you should teach them 2 things: one is how to behave rightly and the other is ways to control their desires.

You need to teach them about the limitation, controlling their desires instead of showing them off by being upset.

You need to teach them about the limitation, controlling their desires instead of showing them off by being upset.

So, what should you do?

Be calm as well as possible then give back the shopping cart and take them outside. Sit with them on chairs on the sidewalk or seats in the car and say that you’re only ready to listen to them when they stop crying.

When children are calm and stop crying, you should let them know what they’ve just done is wrong. After that, you can take them inside again and control you children by say to them that today you only buy household appliances and the toys they want are only bought in special occasions such as their birthday or when they get good learning results at the end of the final semester.

You will teach them about the limitation, controlling their desires instead of showing them off by being upset.

Children fight over toys with other children

You should also teach them right ways to play with friends. Children can play peacefully with friend at the present and fight over toys or crayons with their friends in the next minutes. And if they can’t get it, they will cry and tell their mothers.    

Children can play peacefully with friend at the present and fight over toys or crayons with their friends in the next minutes.

Children can play peacefully with friend at the present and fight over toys or crayons with their friends in the next minutes.

What should you do?

You should let your children know that their behavior is not good and tell them that if they don’t want to play with their friends, stand up and go away.

In many cases, children like to use the toys that they just violently get from their friends to hit them. If so, you should separate their friends with them and let them play alone. That will help them to understand when they do the thing, no one want to play with them.

Children talk impolitely

Children can learn and mimic very quickly. That advantages sometimes make parents worried because no matter how they’re well-educated at home, when contacting with society and friends, they’re still able to learn bad habits. Talking impolitely is a typical example. But, a part from fact that their language abilities haven’t been at the standard level, there’re some other important factors which are their mistaking of differences between communicating with friends and adults.

What should you do?

You can make a deal with your children as you won’t do what they want unless they ask impolitely.

You can make a deal with your children as you won’t do what they want unless they ask impolitely.

You should emphasize at the fact that your children should express their thinking by full sentences with subjects and objects, use polite words and practice them well. After that, you can make a deal with your children as you won’t do what they want unless they ask impolitely. Then, you should look into their eyes and tell them to repeat the sentence. And of course, moms will have no reason to refuse a polite ask like: “Mom, could I go playing outside?”

If your children talk impolitely to adults, you should make them take it and apologize that people right away. Or you can apologize to people on behalf of your children and tell them about this later when there’re only you and your children. Sometimes, it’s just need being patient since your children are just getting to know communication arts.

Children make mistakes but don’t how to fix them

There’s a truth about children is that they hardly remember and obey all principles and rules. They really need friends whom are grown up to guide them to follow the rules and show them how to fix mistakes. This is also an opportunity to prepare for your children the normal abilities to handle necessary situations. 

You shouldn’t tell them off or give them punishments but show them the consequences of what they’ve done and the solutions.

You shouldn’t tell them off or give them punishments but show them the consequences of what they’ve done and the solutions.

What should you do?

First of all, you need to calm down, avoid telling them off or giving them punishments but show them the consequences of what they’ve done and the solutions. For example, when you catch your children drawing on the white wall and strictly tell them: “Where is the place that you are allowed to draw on? Is the wall your drawing paper? What are you going to do?” After that, make them clean the wall by themselves. It’s very possible that moms will have to help them clean the wall in the end but, it’s important that children have learned to pay for their mistakes.

For that reason, you don’t have to use any punishment on your children. Moreover, if you teach them to behave well, they will soon become conscious in what they do and independent in life.

 

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