When babies are 3 – 4 years old, it is an ideal time for you
to shape their characters.
Children
will be obedient if parents teach well.
Boys at 3 – 4 years old have lots of
difference in communication; and you do not want your son to become a naughty
boy, right?
Most of the babies from 3 – 4 years old get
difficulty communicating well. For example, they interrupt conversation without
taking notice that others are talking, or pump into the play of friends, or pay
less attention to others’ feelings.
Your husband can suppose that is normal
manifestation of boys, but you are still afraid that your child will bother others
or even become an unpleasant boy.
Not be too worried, refer to some tips
below to make your baby more sociable and lovely in everyone’s eyes.
Do not base on excuse
Boys or girls have both good communication
skills through reasonable lead and support of adults. If you accept causes
defending your baby’s action, you will never see it improves communication
skills.
Boys
will be more sociable and easy-going in everyone’s eyes if they are taught early.
Small steps leading to success
Although you really want your children to
learn quickly communication skills, they are not matters you can urge.
Instead of that, you can choose small and
detailed situations to help babies improve these skills little by little. For
example, remind children not to interrupt others’ conversation.
Excite children’s sympathy and awareness
Ask your babies how they feel if someone
disturbs them when they are playing joyfully with friends. They are probably
not interested in this problem. They may have no thought that others also have
the same feelings as them.
This prompt helps your children note to their
sense as well as others and sympathize gradually with people.
Find out and prevent this “phenomena”
Perhaps children have not recognized yet
that their words can impact others, and if they say bad words accidentally,
others can be hurt. Your 4-year-old son just thinks simply that his speech is
funny.
You need to pay attention and remind when
your son hurts someone by his speech. If finding out and correcting in time,
you will help him learn right communication skills soon.
Criticize in positive ways
Avoid hurting babies’ self-respect by using
positive words to remind them.
Instead of saying that they are too
impolite when interrupting the conversation, let tell them that: “You
surprised me, you were very polite in the past. So you should pay a bit
attention next time, baby!”
Teach children how to share
This is one of basic skills making children
improve their communication skills. Nevertheless, they are not easy to share
their favorite toys if not being exchanged any things. You can help them
develop this skill at home.
Train them to share a few desserts with you
or read favorite books together. They will be gradually familiar with sharing
everything to others and be more sociable.
Prize for small successes of children
Not just focus on their actions that need
to be improved, but you should give them a prize and motivate them whenever
they do right actions, share and help others.
That make children memorize right things
they did, not make them give up just by what they have not done perfectly yet.
Listen by heart
Babies listen but not interrupt you; that
is sign of sympathy and interest. That is also reason why you should advise them
listening patiently when others are talking, as well as looking at speakers to
express their respect. You also remind them that they should answer only when the
speaker finishes talking.
Keep away from negative names
Try to avoid having a rush for finding a
reason to explain how children have a difficult in communication by saying: “He
is such polite”.
This is a type of foisting label in
psychology in order to lengthen actions which you want your children to change.
And that just makes everything become more complex. Instead of that, support
and lead reasonably to help your babies improve their weakness of communication
skills and become more sociable.
A scholarly husband
The most effective way helps children
improve their behavior is cooperate with your husband to teach them. Let plan a
strategy together and support each other.
Do not forget that your husband used to be
a naughty boy. He may have many good tips to control your son.
The most important thing is babies need the
lead and change little by little. Personality, actions, as well as habits of
children cannot be switched only in one night. You need to be patient and have
a clear method to teach your babies.
These tips, together with your love, will
make your children become obedient, sociable, and lovely soon.
Although you really want your babies have a
good ability of communication in the most quickly way, you cannot be rush in
this situation. Choose small and detailed actions to help them get better
gradually.
For
boys, father is a remarkable model.
