The followings are reasons why you should give
birth successively.
Saving time and costs
To women who have to quit job to stay at
home and take care of their children, having another child in 18-24 months
later will help them save time and get back to work soon.
In fact, taking care of a newborn takes
lots of time. Instead of staying at home and take care of one baby, you should
use the time to take care of 2. Though it will be hard, you’ll be free like the
time you were young when the children are grown up. On other words, it helps
shorten the most time you have to take care of young
children.
To
women who have to quit job to stay at home and take care of their children,
having another child in 18-24 months later will help them save time and get
back to work soon
If you decide to have another baby at the
time, the later will be 33 months as young as the older. According to
researches, this is biologically and psychologically the sensible moment to
have the second child.
As you have the second child soon after
having the first child, you will just have to spend once for things like
cradles, toys, newborn clothes… or just have to spend a bit in addition. Basically,
you can use clothes of the first child on the second one. Especially, you also
just need to spend once for house preparation so that babies can be safe living
in it.
Making the most of the new experience
It’d
be very convenient if you can apply the information that you’ve just learned on
the second child.
When raising the first child, you may have
questioned yourself about the right way to take care of the child, such as how
many hours should babies sleep, why do babies often get startled when sleeping
or should I buy babies go-car…. All of the queries can be shared and find on
the internet. The information on the internet can help us to have pretty
experience about raising and protecting a baby. And it’d be very convenient if
you can apply the information that you’ve just learned on the second child.
Children can play toys together
When the first child is not so older than
the second one, they can get along more easily and at some points of time in
the future, they can be friends to each other: share toys, foods, play with
each other. Parents can give children the same education as they are nearly at
the same age.
At that time, every concern about foods,
clothes, toys and schools of children can be solved at the same time: parents
can feed children the same foods because their developments are not so
different from each other.
Women
can get afraid of having the second child when the first one is 5 years old
Because taking of newborns is hard: you
have to stay awake all night, make milk, prepare snacks…, it may make women be
afraid of having another child when the first child is about to or studying at
primary school.
On other hands, if you have 2 children
successively, though the custody is still hard, it’ll be easier for you to
suffer from the hard time once.
Finally, before deciding to have 2 children
successively, you must consider about your financial situation. To families
that have good financial condition, it’s more possible to have 2 children
successively. However, married couples who have medium salaries can still enjoy
raising 2 children at the same time and watching them growing up every day.
