Basically,
we want to share everything to him, but wait. According to the latest
information about relationship, keeping secret of some things is the key to
make him become more burning to you.
You love
him, so confide everything to him is sounds to be good. However, specialists
say filling him with too many details of your life may damage attraction of
each other – which is, now they feel right more than ever. What is the reason?
Between social communication and whole revealing culture in which we are
living, we are taking away a characteristic making women become attractive:
secret.
“When a
guy thinks he understand all things about his girlfriend, the relationship may
become rather boring”, said Jill Murray, relationship curer at California. “On
positive side, if he feels you have full of surprising things, he is still
attracted”. On one side, it is a game “pursue love, love escapes; escape love,
love pursues” about spirit, and it can be your strongest weapon of charm that
keeps flame for sex. Stops reveal those three things and he cannot get bored
with you.
Secret 1: Keep secret
what you do in the evening
Maybe you
are just going out with your girl friends, but let him know you are having
crazy adventures. “When he is let down, his mind will wander, imagining all
kinds of scripts that can be more interesting than what you are doing”, said Diana
Kirschner, the author of Sealing the Deal: The Love
Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love. “When
he is reminded that you have an interesting life besides him, it makes him more
want to be a part of it”.
If you
have a new relationship, prove to be equivocal when going out. If he directly
asks about your plans, you can even posture. For example: “Oh, you will not
want to know, but I will see you later”, and end in that way. Used to be with
each other? You cannot evade like that. Therefore, tell him you are not sure –
you will see where the dark takes you to.
Secret 2: Your (some)
wonderful skills
Suppose
you were a great cook. Your boyfriend is sure to be knocked out at some first
times when you cook dinner for him. However, he gets familiar with them, then
they become normal. Everyone is easy to become sensitive in front of
surprising ability, which is an essential reason when you keep doing what makes
him admire.
“Keeping
showing off your skills or secret knowledge makes him passion,” said Murray.
“The more he feels he cannot keep you, the more he passions”.
Sometimes,
reveal a new thing about yourself. For example, do not explain you studied
piano when young. Reveal surprisingly, you can sit beside a piano at hotel’s
waiting room and begin to play. Or you might study an online Spanish course.
Keep secret, plan a date at Mexico restaurant, and make him admire when you
order by Spanish.
Secret 3: Your body
is unsuitable
In fact,
it is not attractive when you complain about gaining weight or some aspect of
character you want to change. “First, men know when you talk about your
un-self-confidence, whatever they say can be exaggerated on their face”, said
Dr.Catherine Cardinal, the relationship curer at California.
When you
imply about the body part about which you most feel unsatisfied, it decrease
your suggestiveness, and make him suddenly look at you as a work being
implemented – none of which burns the passionate flame in your relationship.
Find and
register an exercise course, read books consulting about the feature you want
to impact, or appeal to your friends’ help, but exclude your guy. Cardinal
reminds that a woman completely satisfied with herself, even bad features, is a
woman that cannot be resistible.
