1. You’re Not Alone—Look at the Statistics
We all experience stress some of the
time, and these days, more and more people experience stress all of the
time, particularly at work. The effects aren’t just individualized,
either. According to the American Institute of Stress in Yonkers, New
York:
“Nearly half of all American workers suffer from symptoms of burnout.”
• An estimated 1 million people in the work force are absent on an average workday because of stress-related complaints.
• Nearly half of all American
workers suffer from symptoms of burnout, or severe job-related stress
that impairs or impedes functioning.
• Job stress costs U.S. industry
$300 billion every year in absenteeism, diminished productivity,
employee turnover, and direct medical, legal, and insurance fees.
• Between 60 percent and 80 percent of industrial accidents are probably due to stress.
• Workers’ compensation awards for
job stress, once rare, have become common. In California alone,
employers paid almost $1 billion for medical and legal fees related to
workers’ compensation awards.
• Nine out of ten job stress suits are successful, with an average payout of more than four times the payout for injury claims.
2. Why Does Work Cause Stress?
For a few lucky people, jobs are
sources of rejuvenation and personal satisfaction. For many others, even
though work is sometimes or often rewarding, it is also a major source
of stress. The more people work and the longer the workday becomes, the
more we dream of being able to retire early.
Actually, research that
has followed up on the life satisfaction of lottery winners reveals that
very few were happier and that many were less happy after quitting
their jobs (winning the lottery brings about its own kind of stress).
Although any job can be stressful and sometimes monotonous, our work
lives often bring us more than a paycheck.
3. Decide If It’s Time for a Change
Is a job change in order for you? Examine the following list. How many items apply to you?
• I dread going to work on most days.
• I come home from work too exhausted to do anything but watch television or go to bed.
• I am not treated with respect at my job.
• I’m not paid what I’m worth.
• I’m embarrassed to tell people what I do for a living.
• I don’t feel good about my job.
• My job doesn’t allow me to fulfill my potential.
• My job is far from being my dream job.
• I would quit in a second if I could afford it.
• My job is keeping me from enjoying my life.
If two or more items on
this list apply to you, you might want to consider a job change. If you
aren’t qualified to do what you want to do, you need a plan. Find out
what would be involved in getting trained in a field that holds more
interest for you, or work on saving up some money so that you can start
your own business.
4. Get Job Stress Under Control
Think about each of the following
areas of your work life and write a few lines about how you feel when
you think about these aspects of your job. Writing about each area may
help you to understand more clearly where your stress lies.
1. This is how I feel about the people I work with:
2. This is how I feel about my supervisor:
3. This is how I feel about the environment in which I work:
4. This is how I feel about the values and purpose behind my place of employment:
5. This is how I feel about the actual, day-to-day work I do:
6. This is how I feel about the importance of the work I do:
7. My favorite thing about work is:
8. My least favorite thing about work is:
9. My work utilizes my skills in the following areas:
10. My work fails to utilize my skills in the following areas:
11. My needs unmet by work are or aren’t being met elsewhere (explain):
12. I wish my job could change in these ways:
After examining your
answers, it may become clearer where your dissatisfactions with your job
lie, and where things are fine. Now, make a list of the things about
your job that cause you stress. After each item, write an O if you think
you can live with this stressor, and an X if you think you can’t live with this stressor. Then look at the items for which you wrote an X. These are the areas you need to manage.
5. Manage Job Stressors
Of course, how you manage the
stressors at your job depends on what those stressors are. You can take a
few different approaches:
• Avoid the stressor (such as a stressful coworker).
• Eliminate the stressor (delegate or share a hated chore).
• Confront the stressor (talk to your supervisor if he or she is doing something that makes your job more difficult).
• Manage the stressor (add something enjoyable to the task, give yourself a reward after completion).
• Balance the stressor (put up with the stress but practice stress-relieving techniques to balance out the effects).
If you can do something to avoid,
eliminate, confront, manage, or balance the stress that comes from your
work life, your entire life will be more balanced and less stressful.
6. Don’t Seek to Eliminate All Work Stress
Remember that this articles is about
managing and reducing stress, not eliminating it, because eliminating
all stress is impossible. As you’ve already read, some stress is
actually good for you. It can get you charged up just when you need a
boost. It makes life more fun, more interesting, and more exciting,
especially at work. You would probably get bored without the challenge
of a new client, the possibility of a future promotion, or even the
potential for turnover within your workplace. The spark generated by
periodic change is important in life, as long as we manage our reactions
to it.
7. Make Changes Instead of Excuses
If you’re always ten minutes
late in the morning, you’re probably experiencing significant stress
due to rushing on your way to work each day. You might be inclined to
blame the traffic on your commute, or to complain that your coffee
maker is on the fritz again, causing you to leave the house later than
you should. These are just excuses. Chances are that there is always
traffic to deal with, and that your coffee pot didn’t just go on the
fritz yesterday. The point is, you’re obviously not allowing enough time
in the morning before you leave for work. If you woke up just ten
minutes earlier, you’d probably leave the house ten minutes earlier,
which would help you arrive to the office on time.