A healthy relationship includes two people who love and
respect the other. It can only happen when each of them takes care of
themselves first, which in turn will help taking care each other. By
communication, relationship tests, opening to change, and supporting, you can
build a healthy relationship to improve the quality of your life and the other
half.
A healthy relationship include two people who love
and respect the other
Guides
1. Communicate. You
should talk to your partner often, and express your feeling, point to the
other. This not only help him/her to know how you feel but also make some of
your messy feeling clear.
2. Listen, spend
time understanding his/her points. You should listen carefully and question him/her,
help him/her know that you care about his/her important problems.
Listen
and spend time to understand your partner
3. Check your
relationship periodic. You should not be worry about maintaining your
relationship, but a periodic test helps a lot. Ask your partner about your
relationship, and how everything is going. This can help you to understand how
the other feels in every specific time of your relationship.
Check
your relationship periodic
4. Solve your
conflicts at appropriate times. You may want to solve the problem immediately
because you are afraid it will get worse. However, sometimes it is better to
wait until both of you are cool down; at this time, you can talk calmly and
come up with a good solution.
5. Balance your
lifestyle. New relationships make you feel you do not have enough time for your
partner, but you should maintain your balance between friends, family and your
love. If your life becomes unbalanced, then you start to blame your partner
about your issues, this possibly cause damage to the relationship. The balance
helps you calm down.
Balance
your life first
6. For the
relationship to develop, everybody needs to change over time, and you still can
be together if you care about the others feeling. Be open to change, and think
about the ways you can change but still can be together. For example, if he has
a new hobby, you can support him by joining it.
Keep
support your partner to develop your relationship
7. Accept the
differences and let them strengthen your relationship. Do not take differences
as problems; take them as chances to be with your partner which can take you
out of your comfort zone. Differences might bring good chances to both of you,
and they are not always problems.
