You are ready to commit and tired of waiting for him to
propose? Here are some tips to speed up the process and have a ring on your finger.
Instructions
- Be sure that you want to marry him, not to be married. It
is always difficult to decide when you are in love with him and all your
girlfriends have already been married, but remember breaking up is always
better than divorce. Make sure he is the one by asking yourself whether
you really want to marry him even when he has nothing, no ring, no big
wedding, no house, no car, unemployed. And you have to be sure you have mature
thinking about kids, money, job, and future before marriage.
Make sure he is
the one by asking yourself, do you really want to marry him.
- Find out if he really wants to marry you. Talk to him
about future and ask him whether he wants to get married and whether you are
the one for him. You might discover some points through the conversations
while you guys are drunk, but what really matters here is keeping a
conscious heart to talk about your future.
- Check his schedule if he is still studying or working for
a purpose. There is a chance he won’t make his proposal until he gets his
goals. Talk to him about things he will do next. He might say, he will
give you a ring after he gets the promotion, but if his next goal is related
to his job, perhaps he cannot think about marriage in the near future.
Check his schedule
if he is still studying or working for a purpose.
- Give him some hint about your schedule in a sincere way.
Instead of placing many pictures of rings around the house, tell him the
practical reasons why you want to get married (change your name if you are
about to publish your book, sign a contract or move). I have friends who
got married after a short time their boyfriends realize that it is what
they have to do sooner or later.
- Take off your pressure. Everybody is down on their knees
under pressures. Once you make it clear that you want a wedding and need
an answer as soon as possible, all you can do after that is waiting. If
you push him harder and harder, he might want a break-up, so avoid
ultimatum till you are ready to break up.
- Use every help you have. If you guys have been together
for a long time, do not hesitate to suggest his mother or friends of you
two to help. They might be very helpful in persuading him.
Persuade your
boyfriend to propose
