The following advice will help you recover
self-confidence and you will really become wonderful mothers in your children’s
eyes.
You are taking care of a young angle and
sometimes you will feel exhausted and powerless with the development and
accrued things when you are mothers. You have doubts about your ability of
being mothers and so you will lose confidence.
Sometimes
you will feel exhausted and powerless with the development and accrued things
when you are mothers.
The following advice will help you recover
self-confidence and you will really become wonderful mothers in your children’s
eyes.
1. Skip the sinful guilty obsession
No one is perfect and you aren’t an
exception. However, this thing doesn’t mean that you will guilty because you
don’t know the way to take care of your children thoughtfully, you cannot spend
all time staying with your children, you will feel be worried about something
that you can do better to take care of your children so that children won’t be
ill or unpleasant.
You must understand that mothers have the
similar mood, especially when they become mothers in the first time and you
should remember that your children don’t recognize this thing yet.
2. Be stable with your point of view
As mothers, we ourselves must decide many
things that relate to our children’s health such as which food you should feed
your babies, which clothes you should let children wear and how children drink.
To those decisions, you always meet
comments and suggestions of your relatives and friends. In this case, if you
aren’t stable, you will fluctuate and you will meet the result.
Therefore, you should be self-confident
about yourselves and you should believe the things that your heart advises to
do the best things for your children. Other people’s advices are only used to
refer to help you have more exact decision.
You
should be self-confident about yourselves and you should believe the things
that your heart advises to do the best things for your children.
3. Confide with your husband and other members in family
When you have difficult in taking care of
your children or you feel anxious about your ability in educating your
children, you should find a person that you really trust to confide.
Your companion will be the best choice
because sharing that thing with your husband will help you feel comfortable and
this thing also improves his responsibility with children.
When
you have difficulty in taking care of your children, you should confide with
your husband.
You can confide with your mother or your
older sister or close friend because saying about the things that make you feel
worried will make you feel more comfortable. When you receive the sharing and
encouragement sincerely, you will feel more self-confident to do your vocation.
4. Ask other people for help
In raising children, sharing of husband and
wife is a necessary thing. However, you also need the help and exchanging
experience with grandparents, parents and friends.
You shouldn’t think that only you possess
children. If you are happy and receive the help of other people and study the
experience from other people, surely, you will feel comfortable and
self-confident to complete your responsibility.
5. Believe in your ability
Maybe you don’t know that in the process of
taking care of and educating children, if you aren’t self-confident, this thing
will have negative effect on children. Children will be affected by your
characteristics and in the future, children will become the people that lack
self-confidence.
You must think that you will do well. For
example, when children cry, you must find the way to sooth them according to
the ways that you know and since then you can recognize your strong points
instead of being intent to think about your weak points.
You must always think that you will become
a good mother. This is the important thing in anything, especially doing the
role of father, mother.
