Parents should do things following to help
children be social and able to recognize the meaning of life, by which children
will be more mature.
Raising children is not all about the
physical but also about the spiritual of them. Those simple things following at
some levels, will help parents make children social and recognize the meaning
of life, by which children will be more mature.
Understand children’s mood
In first 6 months of life, babies can
express all the feelings of them in their faces in order that you will
understand them. They will laugh when you get in the room and cry when somebody
takes away their favorite toys.
They
can cry to show you that their diapers are full, they’re hungry or hurt.
You have to adjust with the continuing
emotional changes of babies: laughing right after crying and the opposite. You
shouldn’t be worried about the fact that children cry more than they laugh as
their unpleasant faces are used for communicating.
They can cry to show you that their diapers
are full, they’re hungry or hurt. Those things will decrease by the time they
grow older and have more easier ways to express their feeling like body
language or words.
Bring babies joys
Instead of giving children a cell phone toy
or colorful toys, or a colorful room, you should spend time with your children,
which is more simple and able to bring much pleasure to babies.
Play with them because they’re happy when
you’re happy. Toys are very good for babies to develop necessary skill for the
future. Building house with blocks or playing toys imitating the cooking can
help children to form interests and even decide careers in the future.
Help children to express emotions
To newborns, the only way to express
feelings is crying. But, when they’re older, you can teach them to name their
feelings with words. They will be able to recognize states of anger and
happiness. Even when they don’t know how to talk, you can show some emotional
expressions on your face and ask them whether they feel the same.
Even
when they don’t know how to talk, you can show some emotional expressions on
your face and ask them whether they feel the same.
You need to pay more attention when
children become too sensitive or angry because it can due to their habit
changes or their disappointment about something. When they’re older, they have
to face with disappointments more regularly like when they get angry at a
birthday party or cry because they aren’t invited to a game. In those cases,
you should let them express their disappointments in the most natural way. You
need to know that disappointments are part of life.
Teach children to face with disappointments
In the first years, children learn many
things, such as siting, walking, standing, talking…. Those skills take lots of
time to form. One important things that you have to let children face with
mistakes during the learning and encourage them to correct those mistakes to
keep going.
Children will feel disappoint and angry
but, the feelings will turn to joys when they gain achievement and confidence
to do other things. When children have been through all of the feelings, they
will have stable inners and know how to face and cope with difficulties when
grown up.
Compliments should come in right moment
Happy people are often ones who can own a
skill which needs time to develop into a good habit to life. For that reason,
when your children mange to write their name at the first time, you should give
them compliments because when they do something good, they beseem to have
compliments.
The most important thing is letting
children be in charge of their life. They can do anything as long as they pay
attention to that. This will be an important element to achieve success in
their life in the future.
Maintain health
You
should let children take part on physical activity.
To have good mood, you have to have good
health first. Full sleeps, regular exercises and healthy diets are important
elements to developing bodies of children. Let them release the energy
regularly by playing games like soccer, running, jumping or collective games
and they’ll have good mood when doing things.
Children can be affected by your emotions
This is completely practical. To newborns,
when seeing you smile, they will copy you and smile. To young families, there
must be times you feel overwhelmed and tired, which isn’t good for children’s
emotions. You need to teach children to share emotions and receive helps from
parents in order to prevent them from depression.
Teach them how to make other people happy
You
can teach them to help other people by doing simple things.
When children are 10 months old, you can
teach them to help other people by doing simple things. For example, you should
ask children for a piece of the banana they’re eating. If you are busy combing
the hair, give them chances to hold your comb. Those small moments are very
meaningful in teaching children about sharing and taking care of other people.
When children are older, you should let
them put their dirty clothes into clothes baskets instead of collecting it on
your own. This will help children to find it necessary to have their help
recognized. Of course, they’ll be happy if people who receive help from them
happy.
